Fall into me: Why can't someone tell me this?

FALL INTO ME

"Right here waiting, staying strong
Come and Fall into me

You say you've turned it off
Hid your heart upon a shelf
Scared of what it might cost
To take it down for someone else

Cause loving him you lost
Too much of yourself
Baby can't you see....that he's not me
And...

I need you to know you can fall into me
That my arms are wide open and will always be
Right here waiting,
Staying strong
Come and fall into me

I'll follow any road
Anywhere to get to you
I'll open up my soul
If that's what you need me to do

But now baby its your move
All you've got to do
Is believe in love, just believe in us
Now...

I need you to know you can fall into me
That my arms are wide open and will always be
Right here waiting,
Staying strong
Come and fall into me

Just believe in love, just believe in us
Baby...
I need you to know you can fall into me
That my arms are wide open and will always be
Right here waiting,
Staying strong

Come and fall into me
Come and fall into me
Baby fall into me" --Emerson Drive

Dazed and confused: What are the rules about Ex's?

Okay I have a question. What are the rules when dealing with and ex? I mean a real EX. An ex from years ago. Are you allowed to ever hook up again? What if you never really hooked up? What if it feels unfinished because you never go the opportunity to go that far? Do you take the risk of ruining what you have now to make sure it is finished and that your feelings for that person are really only in the past? Or is it grabbing at air, and trying to hold on to something that isn't there? Is it okay to hook up with an old ex to get over new one? Well, I guess I can only wait and see what happens. Being on the rebound is confusing. :-)

I QUIT!!

Well, I did it! I quit my job. I was unhappy there. No, I don't have a plan but I have lots of ideas. :-) Who knows... Like I said a couple of weeks ago I just feel like running awa.; not necessarily from responsibility but from where I am. I am going home this weekend for Easter, even though I haven't been to Church at all this Lentan season. :-/ Don't tell my Grandma! ;-) I am thinking of going to Long Beach next weekend with my sister to an engineering conference, maybe I will snag another one for a little while. ;-) The weekend after that is possibly to San Francisco... all this now that I don't have a job. Damn, I have some balls! Oh well, maybe I will be able to figure things out if I am not here and not thinking about them. :-p I have to realize I am just like everyone else, trying to answer the question: What is my purpose in life, what do I want to do? I hope you are fairing better than I am in finding the answers you want.