Viva Las Vegas: The girls are stepping out!

Viva Las Vegas: The girls are stepping out!

Woo hoo! Fun times in Vegas! I definitely recommend everyone take a trip Las Vegas when you want to forget all your problems. When in Vegas you will do things you never thought you could or would want to. I had tons of fun and checked out some awesome clubs! We started with Body English at the Hardrock, great music so dancing on the the tables is a must! I did it --no you can't see the pictures-- but you can see the club and the hot ladies I was partying with...

We had so much fun! There were tons of people and the best part was that Body English had a huge dance floor so you could actually dance... well if you could find a spot. Do you see one?

Alright, a 4am bedtime is rather early for Vegas but only because instead of going to an after hours we hit up the Adult SuperStore to find Titty Tassels... Just so you know, you have to go to a store that specializes in "dancer" attire, so we were privileged enough to meet Mr. Vavoom on Saturday. Check out his fashions on YouTube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=364Sr549shIv=364Sr549shI.

All I can say, if I was as hot as the go-go dancers at The Venetian's Club Tao, the second club we went to, I wouldn't have to get paid to dance, I would do it for free! The fact that everyone stops (guys and gals) to stare would be enough payment. But maybe I am biased.

Oh, but the best part of the entire trip, was the pool. Nothing beat the strawberry daiquiris, vodka sevens, and the warm sun! I felt glamorous. Come on people, what are you waiting for, go to Vegas!

You are worth somone who CAN'T wait!

The bible: "He's just not that into you" by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
Chapter 7: he's just not that into you if he doesn't want to marry you

I am actually quite proud of myself. I read this book over two years ago and it helped me get myself on track then and it still rings true today. Actually, my break-up was a lot easier this time around. I know the posts to my blog may make it seem different, but it is true. I didn't take to heavy partying, drinking, one night stands, and other self-destructive behaviors this time. I do think of him constantly, but I don't desperately call, email, or put myself in situations where I "might" run into him. Why, because of chapter 7 in this book.

The night we broke up he told me that while on vacation with his parents his dad got a little tipsy and asked if we were going to get married, he didn't tell me his answer that night, but... I have since guessed it since that was the beginning of the end. I know that his response was, "I don't think so." Not, "maybe" or "I don't know," but a realization for him that he just wasn't that into me. Now he tried to feed me what Greg calls, "The Age-Old 'I'm Just Not Ready' Excuse." I was proud of myself that night because I said, you will end up with someone, I am just really sad that it isn't going to be me.

Now I have to thank my former guy because he did what I couldn't and walked away, I would have waited and been one of those girls... but since he walked away, I was also able too. And though I am not happy, I am not entirely sad either, because if my love was a burden or wasn't what he was looking for, he doesn't deserve me and I will find someone who wants me. Someone who can't wait to talk to me everyday. Someone who will call just because he is thinking of me. Someone who will buy me flowers for no reason at all. Someone who will work as hard as I will to make things work.

Greg writes in his book:

"Dear Waiting at the Altar,
He's right. Why rush? It's only been five years. He's going to know you so much better after ten years he decides he's still not ready. I hate to tell you this, but here's why he feels rushed: He's still not sure you're the one. Yep my lovely, I know it's hard to hear, but better to hear it now than 10 years from now..."

Remember this... you are worth someone who CAN'T wait!

Setting my sights on a prince

Just in case you hadn't read yet, Prince William split from his long-time girlfriend at least according to the tabloids and British papers. That means he is available again ladies. I guess I will wait four weeks and then move in. Do you think that is long enough? ;-)