My take on Hawaii....

Hello Friends, if anyone is listening... I have some friendly advice to offer on Hawaii. So far, Kauai is not the place to be if you are single and looking for adventure. Yes, there are supposedly hikes, waterfalls, and shopping, but none of which are fun if you are single and alone. This place is way way tooo slow for even a person who has been living in Santa Fe, NM the land of "manana" to be and have fun. I would be better off laying on a beach high on codine... There are supposedly hikes, but you have to drive there..... there are a lots of touristy things like surf lessona, helicopter riides, and what not, but at the end of the day you will end up at the bar taking to a timeshare salesman. :-) I can't wait to get to Oahu and hoepfuly have soem real fun...... The ocean ma not be perfect, but at least there are more living thing than crabs and crawish. :-)

What do do...

I need some advice...Four weeks and he's using four letter words... Fastest time before that a boy said it in 6 weeks and after 6 years it turned out it was a lie. How can you know so quickly? I guess if I don't know it isn't the same for me. I've told him I don't know...Question now...Do I wait to figure out how I feel or cut him loose? I don't want to lead anyone on if I'm not sure.

The art of waiting...

Look around at a restaurant or in a mall and you'll see people waiting... But you can't really tell because we are so plugged in that if a person has to wait more than 45 seconds the smart phone comes out and they are instantaneously entertained.

It makes me wonder how this has changed things. I was sitting here waiting without my phone out and I suddenly felt awkward. You start to feel like you are doing something wrong.

What happen ended to people watching? How much can you learn by watching? We watch tv to watch people... Why not do it live anymore?